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 Tout ce qui est bon provient d'une certaine forme de douleur.
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 The hard road leads to an easy future.
 Steering towards the pain is how to live.
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-Apprendre et mettre en oeuvre la thérapie du rejet :
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 « La thérapie du rejet » créée par un certain Jason Comely. En fait il s’agit d’un jeu quotidien pour bâtir une solide confiance en soi et vaincre la peur. Ce jeu a déjà conquis des milliers de joueurs aux USA. Les règles sont très simples, il n’y en a qu’une :
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 The crisis — the most painful moment — defines the hero.
-**Improvement is transformation.**
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 It brings the pain of loss of the comfortable previous self.
 It brings the pain of a new set of problems.
 Wealth brings the pain of responsibility.
 Fame brings the pain of expectations.
-**Love brings the pain of attachment.**
+Love brings the pain of attachment.
 If you avoid pain, you avoid what you really want.
-**The goal of life is not comfort.**
+The goal of life is not comfort.
 Pursuing comfort is both pathetic and bad for you.
 Comfort makes you weak and unprepared.
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 Steering towards the pain is how to live.
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		+	<poem>
		+	Everything good comes from some kind of pain.
		+	Muscle fatigue makes you healthy and strong.
		+	The pain of practice leads to mastery.
		+	Difficult conversations save your relationships.
		+
		+	But if you avoid pain, you avoid improvement.
		+	Avoid embarrassment, and you avoid success.
		+	Avoid risk, and you avoid reward.
		+
		+	Anyone can be their best when things are going well.
		+	But when things go wrong, you see who they really are.
		+	Remember the classic story arc of the hero’s journey.
		+	The crisis — the most painful moment — defines the hero.
		+
		+	Improvement is transformation.
		+	It brings the pain of loss of the comfortable previous self.
		+	It brings the pain of a new set of problems.
		+	Wealth brings the pain of responsibility.
		+	Fame brings the pain of expectations.
		+	Love brings the pain of attachment.
		+	If you avoid pain, you avoid what you really want.
		+
		+	The goal of life is not comfort.
		+	Pursuing comfort is both pathetic and bad for you.
		+	Comfort makes you weak and unprepared.
		+	If you overprotect yourself from pain, then every little challenge will feel unbearably difficult.
		+	People say they’re not doing the work because it’s hard. But it’s hard because they’re not doing the work.
		+
		+	Comfort is a silent killer.
		+	Comfort is quicksand.
		+	The softer the chair, the harder it is to get out of it.
		+
		+	The right thing to do is never comfortable.
		+	How you face pain determines who you are.
		+	Therefore, the way to live is to steer towards the pain.
		+	Use it as your compass.
		+	Always take the harder option.
		+	Always push into discomfort.
		+	Ignore your instincts.
		+
		+	Pain’s power relies on surprise.
		+	If you expect it, it’s weaker.
		+	If you choose it, it’s gone.
		+
		+	Choosing pain makes it bearable.
		+	It loses its power to hurt you.
		+	You become its master, not victim.
		+
		+	Pain is coming anyway.
		+	Don’t get a shield.
		+	Get a saddle.
		+	Tame it.
		+
		+	Don’t wish for good luck.
		+	Good luck makes you complacent.
		+	Practice thriving with bad luck.
		+	Bad luck makes you resourceful and strong.
		+	No matter what the world throws your way, you can stand worse.
		+
		+	Choosing pain means pushing past your instincts.
		+	Food that tastes good is bad for you, and vice-versa.
		+	So don’t use your feelings as a guide.
		+
		+	Choose pain in small doses to build your resistance to it.
		+	A daily ritual of hard exercise gives a great perspective on life’s other pains.
		+
		+	Put yourself into stressful situations.
		+	Eventually, almost nothing will seem stressful.
		+
		+	Socially, try to get rejected.
		+	Learn about “rejection therapy”.
		+	Make audacious requests that you think will be denied.
		+	This removes the pain of rejection.
		+	And you’ll be surprised how often they say yes.
		+
		+	The best way to learn a foreign language is to stop speaking your mother tongue.
		+	No matter how embarrassing or frustrating, communicate only in your new language.
		+	Necessity is the best teacher.
		+	But it hurts.
		+
		+	Practice taking on the various kinds of pain.
		+	Attempt something that seems impossible — something that terrifies you.
		+	Give a speech.
		+	Do a ten-day silent meditation.
		+	Quit a habit.
		+	Apologize to someone you wronged.
		+
		+	Don’t congratulate yourself if your attempt avoids failure.
		+	Remember: you want the pain.
		+	The sooner you pay a price, the less it costs.
		+
		+	Be absolutely honest with everyone.
		+	Stop lying, completely.
		+	You lie when you’re afraid.
		+	You lie to avoid consequences.
		+	Always say the truth.
		+	Take the painful consequences.
		+
		+	You weren’t meant to be idle.
		+	You weren’t built for sitting and staring at screens.
		+	You live to push, pull, climb, and grow.
		+
		+	The most exhilarating experiences in your life so far were daring.
		+	Your proudest moments were overcoming a struggle.
		+	The best happiness comes after some pain.
		+	The best waves on the beach can knock you over.
		+	That’s the best kind of play.
		+
		+	Since you can’t avoid problems, just find good problems.
		+	Happiness isn’t everlasting tranquility.
		+	Happiness is solving good problems.
		+
		+	That’s why we play games.
		+	Games are challenges.
		+	Any challenge can be turned into a game.
		+
		+	The English word “passion” comes from the Latin word “pati”, meaning “to suffer or endure”.
		+	To be passionate about something is to be willing to suffer for it — to endure the pain it’ll bring.
		+
		+	But don’t be a masochist.
		+	Be a scholar of pain.
		+	Every pain has a lesson inside, and a reason why it hurts.
		+	Analyze it.
		+	Understand it.
		+
		+	Ghosts don’t leave until you’ve understood their message.
		+	Problems persist until you claim them and solve them.
		+	Face them directly and they’ll disappear.
		+
		+	First we figured out how to fly, then how to get to the moon.
		+	After you conquer the little problems, you’ll face the better ones.
		+
		+	Facing pain helps you relate to others.
		+	Your problems are never unique.
		+	Whatever problems you’ve had, many other people have had the same problem.
		+	We empathize with someone who’s struggling.
		+	It opens our hearts more than seeing someone win.
		+
		+	Most people don’t get to choose how they suffer.
		+	Once you tame pain for yourself, tame it for others.
		+
		+	The easy road leads to a hard future.
		+	The hard road leads to an easy future.
		+	Steering towards the pain is how to live.
		+	</poem>
		+	}}