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|title = [[Comment vivre]] ? carte n° 4 [[Derek Sivers]]
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The ten commandments said what not to do.
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Most of being a good person is not doing bad.
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Don’t be cruel or selfish.
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Don’t lie or steal.
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Just do no harm.
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People always think they need to do something.
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One action creates a problem, fixed by another action, so they react and counter-act, creating more problems to fix.
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All of this can be avoided.
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All actions are optional.
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You don’t have to act or react.
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You don’t have to do anything.
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Criminals justify their crimes by saying they were in a crisis and had to do something.
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People mistakenly say yes to work, people, and places they don’t like, then need to escape to get away from their mistakes.
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People make bad decisions because they felt they had to decide.
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It would have been wiser to do nothing.
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People destroy relationships with an angry over-reaction.
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The metaphors for “blowing off steam” or “venting” are wrong.
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Expressing your anger doesn’t relieve it.
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It makes you angrier.
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Actions often have the opposite of the intended result.
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**People who try too hard to be liked are annoying.**
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**People who try too hard to be attractive are repulsive.**
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People who try too hard to be enlightened are self-centered.
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People who try too hard to be happy are miserable.
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So the best way to live is to do nothing.
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Stop all the thinking and doing.
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Be still and silent.
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No actions and no reactions.
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No judgments and no conclusions.
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No craving and no fixing.
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Change your need to change things.
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In your most peaceful moments, your mind is quiet.
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You’re not thinking you should be doing anything else.
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When everything feels perfect, you say, “I wouldn’t change a thing.”
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So, live your whole life in this mindset.
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Don’t hope.
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Hope is wanting things to be different than they are.
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Wanting to change yourself is self-loathing.
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There’s no deeper happiness than wanting nothing.
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Desire is the opposite of peace.
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Most of what people say and do is unnecessary.
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Most talk is just noise.
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The English word “noise” comes from “nausea”.
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Say nothing unless it must be said.
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People will appreciate your silence, and know that when you speak, it must be important.
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Shallow rivers are noisy.
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Deep lakes are silent.
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Silence is precious.
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Silence is the one thing that all religions have in common.
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Silence is the only way to hear quiet wisdom.
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Most trouble is caused by action.
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No action, no trouble.
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Most actions are a pursuit of emotions.
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You think you want to take action or own a thing.
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But what you really want is the emotion you think it’ll bring.
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Skip the actions.
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Go straight for the emotion.
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Practice feeling emotions intentionally, instead of using actions to create them.
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You don’t need marriage to feel security.
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Marriage doesn’t make you secure.
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You don’t need recognition to feel pride.
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Recognition doesn’t give you pride.
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You don’t need a beach to feel tranquility.
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Places don’t make emotions.
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You do.
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Your whole experience of life is in your mind.
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Focus on your internal world, not external world.
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When a problem is bothering you, it feels like you need to do something about it.
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Instead, identify what belief is really the source of your trouble.
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Replace that belief with one that doesn’t bother you.
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Then the problem is solved.
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Most problems are really just situations.
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You make decisions to feel forward motion.
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But it’s a treadmill that takes you nowhere.
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When someone asks you to decide, just refuse.
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The longer you go without deciding, the more information is revealed.
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Eventually, the choice is obvious and made without an agonizing decision.
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Just because somebody asked you a question doesn’t mean you have to answer it.
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Dramatic people are fueled by reactions.
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When you stop reacting, they go away.
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Same goes for yourself.
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Your emotions insist they need you to respond.
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When you ignore the urges, they go away too.
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Observe yourself.
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Your own mind is the best laboratory.
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It’s also the most private and peaceful place to work.
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To be wise, shut out all media and opinions.
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No news, no gossip, no entertainment.
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Most of it is not worth knowing.
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Junk may reach your senses, but don’t let it reach your mind.
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Don’t accept the false stories people tell.
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Things are neither good nor bad — they’re as neutral as a rock.
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When people give opinions, add a question mark.
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If they say, “Immigration is bad,” change it to, “Immigration is bad?”
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Let the questions drift away, unanswered.
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The unintelligent jump to conclusions.
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The wise just observe.
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Wisdom comes from removing the junk, lies, and obstacles to clear thinking.
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Instead of learning more, get wise by learning less.
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Keep an empty head, so you can observe clearly.
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The less you do, the more you can see.
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Observe and learn.
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Watch the world.
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Live where nothing is happening.
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Move to a quiet place with lots of nature and no ambition.
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Doing nothing is normal there.
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Walk and appreciate nature for hours a day.
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Your life and mind will be tranquil and serene.
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Peace is the absence of turmoil.
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You won’t need the media, the internet, or a phone.
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Your cost of living will be hardly more than local eggs and vegetables.
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Doing nothing is the ultimate minimalism.
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If you need money, be an investor.
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It’s the only career where you profit the most by doing the least.
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It should take no more than an hour per month.
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The stock market takes money from the active traders and gives it to the patient.
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If an action feels necessary, and you can’t let it go, just write it down for later.
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Everything seems more important while you’re thinking of it.
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Later, you’ll realize it’s not.
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But if it still feels necessary, adjust your time frame.
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A year from now, will it be important?
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Ten years from now?
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Zoom out as far as you need to make it unimportant.
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Then you’re free of it.
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But you may think the world needs you to do something.
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That line of thinking makes it upsetting to die.
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Let go of feeling needed.
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Let go too soon instead of too late.
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The world doesn’t need you.
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You’re relieved of your duty because soon you won’t exist.
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Do nothing now to show that life goes on without you.
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Be selfless.
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Be free.
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Doing nothing is how to live and how to die.
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